Sexual Addiction - Signs You Are A Sex Addict
March 18, 2010 by Author
Filed under Addiction, Addiction Articles
Sex addiction is one of the most maddening addictions on the planet. Many people write off sexual addiction as someone that lacks self control. To a certain degree this is true, but what is not known is that sexual addiction can be just as powerful as any addiction out there. Some people simply can not control their compulsions for sexual behavior. This is much more common than one might think and the behaviors are devastating to families and personal lives. Here are some behaviors that sexual addicts commonly will engage in:
Excessive and public masturbation - When someone self stimulates several times per day or starts to masturbate in public, then sexual addiction is a potential cause. The behavior often begins innocently enough, but the sexual addict will find themselves seeking out more and more dangerous situations to fill that sexual charge. Exhibitionism follows this often, and the sexual addict may get into legal trouble over their sexual encounters either alone or with a partner.
Affairs - The sexual addict often can not be satisfied by only one sexual partner and will eventually seek out others to have sex to relieve the stress. This leads to the destruction of families as well as a long line of unprotected sexual encounters with strangers. The sexual addict will often feel nothing emotionally and rarely if ever feels satisfied sexually.
Pornography Obsession - This is not the man that occasionally looks at a sex tape or Playboy. This is the man that spends hundreds of dollars at the local peep shows, buys sex magazines regularly and seeks out pornography online constantly. Some sexual addicts will seek porn even while at their jobs. Pornography is a very common sign of a sexual addict.
In extreme sexual addiction, the addict may become a peeping tom or voyeur. This behavior can lead to serious legal problems and a complete destruction of self. Sometimes, when a sexual addict is also suffering from other mental issues or addictions, the crimes can escalate to rape.
A sexual addict is every bit as much an addict as someone that suffers from alcoholism or drug addiction. While the addiction may be of a different nature, it is still insidious and dangerous to the life of the addict. Sexual addiction can indeed be deadly - unsafe sex, dangerous sex, and criminal activity related to sexual activity can lead to serious issues.
For those that suffer from sexual addiction, they usually spend a lot of time feeling guilty and ashamed after committing these acts. They often will feel as though they have no way out. If you suffer from sexual addiction, then you really should see a therapist and get some help. Sexual addiction is treatable and you can get better. Reach out and ask for help at your local community help center.




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